Sunday, December 16, 2012

Finding Joy


Below is the scripture and sermon I preached this Sunday in response to the tragedy this past weekend in CT.

Zephaniah 3:14-20

Sing aloud, O daughter Zion;
shout, O Israel!
Rejoice and exult with all your heart,
O daughter Jerusalem!
The Lord has taken away the judgments against you,
he has turned away your enemies.
The king of Israel, the Lord, is in your midst;
you shall fear disaster no more.
On that day it shall be said to Jerusalem:
Do not fear, O Zion;
do not let your hands grow weak.
The Lord, your God, is in your midst,
a warrior who gives victory;
he will rejoice over you with gladness,
he will renew you in his love;
he will exult over you with loud singing
as on a day of festival.
I will remove disaster from you,
so that you will not bear reproach for it.
I will deal with all your oppressors
at that time.
And I will save the lame
and gather the outcast,
and I will change their shame into praise
and renown in all the earth.
At that time I will bring you home,
at the time when I gather you;
for I will make you renowned and praised
among all the peoples of the earth,
when I restore your fortunes
before your eyes, says the Lord.

At this time, in reflection of the recent heinous events it seems odd that I am focusing on the passage from Zephaniah for Sunday. The selection from Zephaniah, 3:14-20, speaks to hope, joy, about God’s actions in helping the suffering, the poor, and the hurting. Preaching from such a passage with such tragedy in our recent memory seems odd. Other passages from Zephaniah seem more fitting for the national ethos and feelings on the wake of this tragedy.

“A soiled, defiled, oppressing city!
It has listened to no voice: it has accepted no correction. It has not trusted in the Lord; it has not drawn near to God.”

“The great day of the Lord is near, near and hastening fast;
the sound of the day of the Lord is bitter, the warrior cries aloud there.
That day will be a day of wrath, a day of distress and anguish,
A day of ruin and devastation, a day of darkness and gloom,
A day of clouds and thick darkness,
A day of trumpet blast and battle cry against the fortified cities and against the lofty battlements.”

When we consider the tragedy brought on the bucolic town of Newton, Connecticut this past Friday such passages from Zephaniah seem more fitting and apt. It is easier to read these passages and to draw the obvious conclusion that we are being punished, or that we are reaping what we sow. It is an easier answer to embrace; it is easier to see such suffering as punishment. This is a time for people to get on their boxes and to start to proclaim the “I told you so” with the prophet:

If we never took God out of schools or out of America
If we only had stronger gun laws
If only our families were not breaking apart
If only we took care of others more
If we as a nation would only support the right things at the right times

The subtext to all of this “I told you so,” is that God is punishing us. The subtext is that God had a part in this hatred and destruction because we have strayed so far from the will of the Lord. It is easy to jump to these passages of Zephaniah and others in the bible that speak of violence, hatred, and death and say they speak to the violence of today. It is easy to look to these passages and offer a message that gets people to rally around one proscribed notion or another with the self-righteous indignation that we are reaping what we sow.

Yet God did not put the gun in that young man’s hands. God did not tell that young man to go and to kill all of those people, including the children. God did not make this happen, God does not punish us in this way. This is not the way of the God who creates with love; this is not the way of the God who is love.

Yes, in many ways we are not right with the Lord, and when we are not right with God we make decisions we regret. When people do not walk with the Lord then we neglect each other, we neglect those who are hurting, and horrible things like this happen. When people are not right with God then hatred and violence reigns in our hearts and we fear others, we find a need to protect ourselves, and we make violence a part of who we are. When people have not given themselves to God then peace does not reign and we live with a sin-filled sickness that can drive one to such horrible acts. It drives our culture to such horrible acts. It drives us all to such horrible acts. God did not make this happen. God did not want any of those children or adults to die. We bring such horror and sadness on ourselves because we, not any institution, but we, the people, individuals, have not fully embraced the way of the cross of Christ.

I read those passages from Zephaniah and other parts of the Bible, those passages that speak to punishment, violence, and the warning of the coming of the Day of the Lord as a proclamation that a people who live without the Lord will end up in that place of being distant from the Lord. I do not read it as saying that a government must overtly embrace Christianity, but that we, the people, must freely embrace the cross. To be distant from God is to be in hell. This weekend we have seen a piece of what it means to be apart from God. This weekend we have seen hell. Such passages of doom and gloom do carry a warning and would be appropriate to preach in light of these recent events.

Yet that is not the passage for this Sunday.

This Sunday I am not called to preach about the wayward direction of society and the fear we are to have with the coming of the Day of the Lord. I am not called to preach about the ills that we all carry, that we all struggle with in our lives. I am not to preach about the hell on earth we all encounter in small ways and on those awful days in ways large. Today, I am called to preach about joy.

This is the Sunday of Joy in our liturgical calendar. This is the Sunday when I have prepared to preach from a passage that speaks of promise and hope. This is the Sunday when we are supposed to fully embrace the goodness of the Christmas season with happiness and celebration. You may say that it is not appropriate to preach on something so upbeat with such a tragedy so close on our minds. You may say that this is one of the times that I should let go of the liturgical calendar, that I should free myself from the confines of tradition and suspend this time of Advent for the sake of those mourning and surrounded with grief. It is too soon to talk of joy. It is too soon to look for hope. Yet I believe that today we need this message more than ever.

This passage from Zephaniah was not written about something that was happening, it was not describing a celebration in progress, but something that is promised. It was not written because things were going well for everyone and the Jews were all happy and doing fine. It was written to a people who were living with tragedy every day, who faced destruction and violence every day. It was written to a people who experienced the grief of Newton Connecticut every day. It was written to a people who did not have any sense of joy; it was written to a people who felt that they were forgotten by the Lord.

This passage from Zephaniah was written to give the people a sense of hope for joy; a promise of joy. This passage speaks about a new time, a new place. It speaks about a restored Zion, about people being healed, about a peace that in this time I have a difficulty comprehending. This passage speaks about a joy in the Lord that is the Lord’s. This is not a joy that is faked or forced or sold or bought, but a joy that is God’s and is a gift from God. And if we ever needed to hear of that joy we sure do need it now.

Advent is meant to be a time of waiting and groaning because we need to be redeemed, we need God’s joy. It is not a joy, a hope, or a peace that we can bring. It is not a restoration that we can do or make happen. It is nothing that we can create or make. All we can do is pray that God’s joy, God’s creation, God’s kingdom will come and then we go along with the coming of this kingdom or we get out of the way.

This is what makes Christmas so necessary, our need for God’s joy in times of horror. We need to have Christ in the world promising us of God’s coming kingdom. We need to see Christ born, God in the flesh, coming to walk among us to show us and redeem us. We need to have Christ in the world so that we can cling to that hope and that salvation. We need, we so desperately need the joy of Christ in the world and in our lives.

Now I am supposed to tell you that it is coming. I am supposed to leave you on a high note, on a place where we can go back to our lives feeling like we have all gone through the appropriate amount of public grief so we can return to our frivolous parties, decorations, and holiday stress without guilt knowing that the lives of individuals and families have been torn apart. I cannot do that. I cannot cleanly tell you about the joy of God, the joy that we yearn for and need and let you leave without making some kind of mess. This passage from Zephaniah makes a mess in the context of the rest of the writings. This passage sticks out, makes a scene, and draws attention. The rest of the writings speak of despair, woes, and punishment. In that sorrow we find joy. It is a messy joy, a messy faith, a messy following of God. Yet this is what it means to be a Christian. We make a mess. This is what I believe we are called to do. To make a mess. Start by looking at those places where we know we will find God. Not the sunset, nor the mountain top, nor in any of the beauty of nature. Start by looking for God in those places where people are living in hell.

God is and will be with the child who will have nightmares about this for the rest of her life.

God is and will be with the parent living with the loss of a child, asking why again and again and never finding a satisfying answer.

God is and will be with the young man who lost his mother and his brother in one day and is trying to make sense of all of this mess.

God, the God who promises us joy is with those who are in the greatest places of hurt and despair and that is where you will find the coming of the kingdom of God. That is where you will find the beginning of the new day, of the new life, of the new promise we find through Christ. That is where you will find the seeds of the joy we read about in Zephaniah.

Go and sit with those in pain, sit and wait for God to lead you, to comfort you, and to give you some kind of hope. Go and sit and stay with that grief, let that grief wash over you and then I promise you on Christmas Eve you will understand the joy of the Christ-child. When you are in that kind of grief, when you are in that place where you hurt, where all hope, peace, and joy is lost, when you sit in the hell of the world, then the power of Christ will become clear to you.

For with Christ we are shown a way. With Christ we are shown a light. With Christ we have life. Life without pain. Life without fear. Life without hate. Life with joy.

Yes, we need to hear this passage today. We need to hear about the joy that is promised by God because on this day we realize that we need it more than ever. We need to hear about this joy because it reminds us what it is we are looking for. As I said, it is coming. On days like today, with such tragedy and suffering so fresh on our minds it is difficult to see that it is coming; it is difficult to find any hope. But it is coming and we can either be a part of it or get out of the way.

I want to be counted as one who was with the mourning. I want to be counted as one who was with the sick. I want to be counted as one who was with the hurting, the poor, the hungry, the oppressed, and the dying. I want to be counted as one who, when the night was darkest, was walking, was marching with the Lord. And in that pain and hurt and mess I will sing. I will sing the Lord’s song, bringing the mess to the front. I will sing with tears in my eyes. I will sing with the pain in my heart. I will sing because we need God’s hope, we need God’s peace, and we need God’s joy. Marching, singing, I want to be counted as one with the Lord.

I am marching in the light of God…
We are marching in the light of God…

AMEN

Monday, December 03, 2012

The Text of the Matter


This is the aforementioned letter I sent to the RISCC concerning the discussion about same-sex marriage.


11/30/12

To the Rhode Island State Council of Churches Governing Board,

At our last meeting of the Faith and Order Commission for RISCC we briefly discussed the intent and focus of the statement concerning same-sex marriage. We are very proud in the diversity of our group and of the council and have worked hard to honor and support such diversity each time we discern various statements and positions. This means that there have been times when we felt certain topics or issues would best be left alone because the unity in our diverse group would be broken. While in the eyes of many this is a sacrifice thus far we have felt it to be a worthy sacrifice for our continued unity as precarious it may be.

With this in mind, the general feeling of the Faith and Order Commission (we did not take any votes) is that an endorsement of statement on same-sex marriage would be damaging to the tenuous unity within the council. Thus we feel that it would not be in the best interest of the Council of Churches to officially endorse such a statement and legislature.

There are people in the Commission who strongly agree with the tenets of the statement and others who disagree with the statement; we all feel that such a stand will make unity near impossible. There has to be another way.

Speaking personally, I am torn over this statement but agree with the Commission. The relationships between mainline/progressive Christians and more conservative, evangelical, Pentecostal denominations constantly feels to be at the edge of tearing apart. I understand that those on the more conservative end of the spectrum do not seem to be interested in any dialogue, but such an endorsement may very well end any real possibility for relationship. Endorsing such a statement will not offer a unified voice on behalf of the various faith communities in Rhode Island but instead will create just one more voice in the din of theological, doctrinal, and spiritual shouting.

It is my hope that we will be able to find another way, a third way (to reference the late Walter Wink). Finding a third way is, after all, one of the hallmarks of our Savior, to show us another way to God’s glory.

Blessings and Peace,
Rev. Dr. Jonathan Malone
Chair, Faith and Order Commission

It Wasn't My Fault!


Sometimes it is just easier to not say or do anything. As I think I have stated before, I have the privilege of chairing the Faith and Order Commission of the Rhode Island State Council of Churches (RISCC). This Commission is perfect for me. We sit, think, write, think, erase, think some more, and maybe write something else. The Commission is purposely not meant to be a controversial group but instead one that looks to draft theological statements which speak to a broad swath of Christianity while at the same time maintaining theological depth and integrity, hence the abundance of thinking and little bit of writing. I thought this would be a great way to be involved with Rhode Island Christians while at the same time avoiding trouble and controversy.

I guess I was wrong.

I didn’t get into any trouble (well, I didn’t have to spend the night in jail), but I have been pulled into a very real debate facing many churches and denominations in RI concerning same-sex marriage. Here is what happened (cue dream sequence fade and harp music):

The RISCC governing board was going to discuss the pros and cons of openly supporting a same-sex marriage law. I was planning on attending this meeting, but because of family responsibilities (pick up child, drive child, drop off child – pick up child, drive child, drop off child – etc.) I was not able to attend. I wanted to make sure my thoughts and the thoughts of the Commission were a part of this conversation so I sent a letter (see the following blog post) to the President and the Executive Director as well as members of the Faith and Order Commission stating our feelings concerning this topic.

The next thing I know is I am getting e-mails from people thanking me for my thoughts, wisdom, and conviction. What? Since when did people look to me for wisdom? When I suggested making a big red gorilla the “mascot” for Pentecost (like the Easter Bunny and Santa Clause) nobody celebrated my wisdom. Am I finally maturing and growing up? Probably not.

What I did not know was that someone wrote an article for the Providence Journal (this is only a synopsis of the article, the Projo does not allow online access to many of its full articles) about the RISCC discussion and used parts of my letter to share the voice of those who are against endorsing same-sex marriage. Hence all of the e-mails and now it feels like I have become a champion for the conservatives. Weird, right?

As you can see I tried to be very careful and not state my personal feelings concerning the issue of same-sex marriage. The newspaper article did not paint me in any theological camp (or at least I do not think so, but reading is always subjective). Yet I worry that I have been pushed to one side or another which is exactly what I am trying to avoid.

Maybe, instead of worrying that I have been pushed into one camp around this issue I should worry that I have not placed myself on one side or the other. As I was writing my response from the Faith and Order Commission in the back of my mind I was thinking about Martin Luther King Jr.’s Letter from aBirmingham Jail where he directly addresses white clergy who pleaded with King to hold off with the civil rights movement and not cause a scene. They called his actions “unwise and untimely.” His response is indicting: “This ‘Wait’ has almost always meant ‘Never.’ We must come to see, with one of our distinguished jurists, that ‘justice too long delayed is justice denied.’”

Both sides of the same-sex marriage issue seem to be saying that we need to draw the line, that this issue is too important to stay silent and here I am urging a wussy, “please don’t create a scene stance.” That is what I hope for with the church I serve, with the American Baptist denomination, and with the RISCC. Yet at what cost?

For the sake of some kind of unity in the body of Christ I stand behind what I have written, but I have to say that I could be wrong. I can’t say with 100% certainty that it is better for the RISCC to not speak out either way about a same-sex marriage law; it is where I am right now.

Now I’m going to slink away before someone calls me a coward.